this is an observation, + probs not an original 1, of a cis lesbian but: so much of feminist thought (on lesbianism in particular) is based in a social analysis of sex + encourages self examination of how we’ve been conditioned 2 perceive sex n human bodies + that’s like…accepted that’s a categorically accepted + endorsed feminist discussion. but as soon as a trans lesbian extends it 2 like ‘hey maybe transphobia/cissexism also harmfully influences how we approach sex’ everyone jst performs victimhood + accuses them of being predatory + manipulative + having ulterior motives + its so fucking transparent. acting like challenging the institution of sex is new. how are u gonna reblog audre lorde quotes abt eroticism but then literally compare a trans woman calling out cisnormative attitudes 2wards sex to conversion therapy. its shitty regardless but the element of blatant hypocrisy is like especially astounding

Actual conversation I just had

My 7 year old son: So if a boy likes another boy, he’s gay?
Me: Maybe. But it’s not just gay or straight. There’s lots of things a person can be.
My son, nodding wisely: Like Jewish.

a thing about now having bangs kind of is that i keep thinking that my sleeping roommate is moving around when really i am just seeing pieces of my hair in my peripheral vision. not constantly scaring yourself with imaginary visions is femme privilege, discuss

enoughtohold:

bananapeppers:

“Stow-N-Go IV” secret-pocket sports bra in “Fire Brick Red Buffalo Plaid” by The North Face + “Long Life Soft” low-rise trunks in bordeaux by Schiesser

you found it. the gayest bra

this morning i looked in the mirror, in my men’s shirt and boots and my short hair, and thought, ecstatically, “i look butch!”

bananapeppers:

“Alphaskin” sports bra in “Coral” by Adidas + boxer briefs in multicolor by Björn Borg

softtrade:

Just got off the phone w a psychologist I’m gonna meet for a surgery letter who was telling me abt how she thinks the entire process of needing letters is bad and she said “I’m a lesbian and if I had to get letter from a PhD to be a lesbian I would lose it”

We get it op, you are a lesbian, which means that you can wear whatever bad clothes you want and no one should say anything

peteseeger:

egowave:

i sure am

Reblog if you are a lesbian, which means that you can wear whatever bad clothes you want and no one should say anything

woolsocklesbian:

fruitygay:

in hindsight … one direction was a lesbian recruiting strategy