unfortunately, due to circumstances beyond my control (a very enthusiastically gender-affirming waiter repeatedly addressing me by the name written on the takeout order i was picking up), i now have the strongest positive gender associations with……. my roommate’s name
one of my favorite tropes of all time is when the author tries to replace curse words with a more ‘family friendly’ alternative or invent new words for worldbuilding purposes but they use existing words that make the whole thing unintentionally hilarious out of context