devil on my shoulder: aries refusing to listen to wise advice by interpreting guidance or suggestion as relegating and underestimating them
devil on my shoulder: taurus “they don’t care the same way that you do”
devil on my shoulder: gemini being deceitful or lying for no valid reason but to experiment with the different reactions they provoke out from different people
devil on my shoulder: cancer incessantly and secretly questioning people’s intentions and using past experiences to justify their suspicions
devil on my shoulder: leo their feelings of jealousy or envy toward certain people are justified and not based on a fleeting image and false assumptions
devil on my shoulder: virgo waiting for something to go wrong so they can be vindicated and their observation proven right
devil on my shoulder: libra withholding vital or sensitive information at crucial time because they assume they know best, the person is ‘not ready’, or it will cause uncomfortable tension or conflict
devil on my shoulder: scorpio “people are inherently bad, friends are just as easily enemies, and if you don’t do it first it will happen to you regardless”
devil on my shoulder: sagittarius “you’re not really having fun until you’ve consumed everything and you can’t feel anymore”
devil on my shoulder: capricorn “if you turn your back for a moment they won’t hesitate to take everything and find your replacement”
devil on my shoulder: aquarius gives a very limited amount of time for somebody to state their opinion and capture their attention before they refuse to hear a thing
devil on my shoulder: pisces what they find to alleviate and soothe their emotional anguish is a false redeemer who waits with more destruction behind that door, they face a devil disguised as an angel
a lot of people think it’s not possible for poetry to be bad. these people are wrong
what are your thoughts on this
actually every poem except this one is bad
hdkfjf the sweet heterosexuals who are styling me for this photoshoot were just like “you have a little black dress right? just bring one in case” and i’m like ……..
was abt to make a post abt how ive seen like 3 dudes who look like sting yoga man in the last 24 hrs but then this white dude with dreadlocks came into the coffee shop and i overheard him saying he was a horse massager so that takes precedence now
i feel like there are a lot of half-truths and straight up lies we have to stop telling kids about biomedical transition, some of which are mythology derived more from the medical and mental health institutions than trans people themselves but all of which are circulated within gay and trans communities, among them:
– that they’ll be the person they were before
– that physicians, psychiatrists, and therapists know better than they do, and that trauma and desire to transition have to be completely separate for transition to be a valid option
– that transition has any kind of endpoint
– that it’s guaranteed to change their mental health for the better in an uncomplicated way
– that it will cure dysphoria, that their dysphoria is guaranteed to improve in every way or even stay the same, and that persistence or even worsening dysphoria always means biomedical transition was the wrong choice
– that hormone replacement and gender-confirming surgeries are supposed to be uncomplicated emotional experiences
– that they aren’t allowed to have second thoughts and that second thoughts always mean biomedical transition was the wrong choice (i’m over two years in, i’ve had some surgery, and i still have moments where i think ‘what the hell am i doing’ even though i know it’s saved my life)
– that any kind of transition, public or internal, biomedical or otherwise, is a linear process with a specific blueprint they have to follow, and
– that biomedical transition has to be the highlight of their lives or otherwise a life-or-death decision, and that their decisions about what to do with their bodies have moral consequences.
there are definitely a lot of others, but i feel like hearing some of this much earlier in my life would have spared me a lot of internal conflict, agony, and lost time
must a sport be entertaining to watch? 